I can't believe that 4 years have passed so soon ut it's seldom a day goes by without me thinking about my big bro ...

Received a letter from the Ambulance Service today explaining the actions taken by the Paramedics which ultimately ended with your death Bobbly. I dont know if it has helped or not, i still feel that you should be with us, that you should'nt have died, you were doing so well, you were enjoying your life for the first time in years. I would give anything to have you back here with me, i miss you so much. Everyday is hard, trying to cope without your happy, smiling face...Crunchie misses you too! I hope, one day, we will be together again...i love you forever Bobbly!

It is the funeral on Tuesday, 19 April, 2011...it is going to be one of the most painful days of my life so far, i am finding it very hard to accept that i will never see him again, the thought of seeing the coffin, knowing he is dead within it, is just one thought too many for me right now....

The birth of his beautiful daughter, Jessica Mary...he was the first to hold her and the look on his face is something that will stay with me for the rest of my life. The look of love and the pride he felt..he never failed her and loved her more than life itself..he looked at me with a tear in the corner of his eye and said 'thank you paley princess, i love you'.....

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I am I and you are you, whatever we were to each other that we still are. Speak to me in the easy way which you always used. Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight? Life means all that it ever meant, it is the same as it ever was.